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Why Your Biggest Problem Is A Lack Of Communication
Some of the biggest problems in my life are a result of bad communication.
It’d be great if I could look at the past, point the finger, play victim, and blame it all on everyone but me, but the fact is, it’s an even war.
My problems are born from lousy communication in every aspect of life.
I’m sure you’re no different.
First, we need to understand what lousy communication is.
Bad communication takes form in hundreds of mediums, but there are a few fundamental principles, no matter how you’re communicating.
Never make assumptions
I’ve made stupid mistakes based on my assumptions.
Whether you’re talking with someone, or it’s via message (i.e., messenger, email, etc.), never assume something you don’t know or understand.
Our emotions take over, and we assume what others feel, think, and do.
The best way to overcome assumptions is by being empathetic and asking questions and will turn the most difficult conversations into a productive dialogue.
“ I’m sorry, Maria, it sounds like you’re…
