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The One Way To Live Your Life For The In-Between Moments
We often seek life’s greatest moments, at the expense of life’s most significant seconds.
Our life is full of junk time.
You see it everywhere. Go to dinner and watch the couple sitting at the table across from you.
They’re ferociously scrolling their social media in a desperate attempt for someone to pay attention to them, or they may have an intense fear of missing out.
The couple can hold each other’s hand and chat about life.
They could share stories about what their children did that day that made them laugh.
Anything.
It’s these small moments that lead us to who we are.
Neglecting them, we begin to lose ourselves. We lose our way.
“I don’t need any special days. I mean they’re all special. We spend a lot of time together and I enjoy every second of it. Again, I’m a believer in the ordinary and the mundane. These guys that talk about “quality time” — I always find that a little sad when they say, “We have quality time.” I don’t want quality time. I want the garbage time. That’s what I like. You just see them in their room reading a comic book and you get to kind of watch that for a…